I’m not going to lie, this has been a tough week. Those stomach pains are still lingering and my nausea returned with a vendetta; cue Monday meltdown!

I had an antenatal appointment on Monday (everything running smoothly) and got to hear this little ones heartbeat; he or she is proving to be an energetic little wriggler already!

Once we’d got home and Jon was about to go to work for the evening, I started to feel really unwell and couldn’t move without feeling sick. At 17 weeks I hoped I was over nausea, but that definitely wasn’t the case early on this week.

I hadn’t slept great on Sunday night either, so a mixture of tiredness, hormones and sickness led to one of those marathon crying sessions; you know the kind, where you cry on and off for a few hours whenever anyone asks if you’re okay. I even roped my lovely brother in to get Daisy a Happy Meal for tea (the sickness was real guys!).

Thankfully, Tuesday was a little better and I’ve only had mild nausea in the evenings again. I even managed to wolf down this bad boy that Jon brought home (he knows the way to my heart!).Apart from nausea, everything else has been pretty normal and I can feel this little babe more and more everyday. Daisy has started looking at my growing bump regularly and telling me that I have a baby in there too; she’s going to be such a good big sister.We have a weekend full of celebrations now as it’s Jon’s birthday on Monday, so there’s lots of food and family time on the cards. Hope you all have a lovely week guys!

Emma x

How do children accumulate so much junk? Like, seriously? Daisy hasn’t long turned 3 and the toy situation was getting out of control. When Daisy started ‘playing’ with her toys a lot more, we decided to move the dining table into the kitchen, to give her (and the toys) a space of their own. This was great for a while, but gradually as more toys appeared, the room got cluttered and meant there was less and less space for her to actually play.

Everything was mixed up in a few large storage bags, so Daisy would end up tipping everything out and not actually playing with anything. As you can see, it started getting a bit out of hand.Just before Christmas, I decided enough was enough and armed with black bags, I started going through what felt like a real life version of pages 300 – 350 of the Argos catalogue. I threw out anything broken, separated anything that could be sold or donated and then split all the keepers into categories.

One mama and Daisy trip to IKEA (whilst wearing my very apt ‘Girl Power’ jumper), I picked up some storage units, boxes and obviously the essential napkins and candles; in our family, you don’t leave IKEA without them!I bought two of these units and eight storage boxes (similar here). I put them all together within an hour and already the room looked so much better. Label maker in hand, I popped one above each box to say what goes where and filled them up. The units themselves are the perfect height for sitting too, so a few pretty cushions made it a cosy reading spot.Daisy has so much more room to play now and it’s also helping to teach her to tidy her toys away; win, win! It made our Christmas shopping easier too, as we could see exactly what she has and what she loves playing with the most (as well as knowing what we can store and where). The blinds are a little squiffy and I’m planning on adding a few rails on the main wall for her arty stuff, but for now a few easy changes have made a huge difference to the little lady’s playtime.Emma  x

So this week marked 16 weeks of pregnancy and if it’s anything to go by, this one is totally different to Daisy. By now in my first pregnancy, I felt like a superhero; loads of energy, motivation and the only sign of pregnancy was my growing belly.img_2280This time however, my body is reminding me constantly that I am indeed ‘with child’. My belly has popped out way quicker this time, I’m still getting nausea (although only in the evenings) and tiredness is at a high. The biggest thing is the stomach pains I’m getting. I’ve tried everything from pregnancy yoga to Epsom salt baths and have even bought a pregnancy pillow, but nothing seems to ease it.img_2366Of course, having a toddler in tow this time is definitely going to change things; gone are the days of putting my feet up and watching box sets for days on end. Now, I’m picking Play-Doh out of the rug, having luke warm, shared baths with all the foam letters and trying to baby wipe my house clean, all whilst having “Johnny, Johnny” stuck in my head (if you know, you know).

Admittedly mind, I wouldn’t change it for the world and all the tough moments are immediately forgotten when Daisy declares me her “best friend” or I feel the little flutters of baby number two. img_2379We knew we wanted another baby and leading up to the wedding, I was kind of wishing time away so we could start trying. After trying for a year for Daisy, never did we imagine falling pregnant within a month of getting married! We feel incredibly lucky and honestly a little shocked!

I’m due 7th July and it’s absolutely flying by. We’re already at loggerheads on finding out what we’re having (we found out with Daisy), but I’m adamant on a surprise this time and given I’ll be the one who’s pregnant and going through labour, I’d say I have a strong argument haha! img_2352I’m going to keep posting some pregnancy updates, even if it’s just a reminder for us. I didn’t take a lot of photos or keep a diary whilst pregnant with Daisy and can’t believe how easy it is to forget it all. This time around, I’m going to record much more so we can look back on all the exciting times ahead.

Emma  x

So this past weekend, our living room was featured in a Welsh newspaper for the ‘Favourite Room’ article. A few weeks back, my sister in law tagged me in a Facebook status from a journalist, who was looking for ‘nice houses’. I didn’t want to leave her hanging, so messaged her and the first thing I said was ‘I don’t know if my house is good enough…’.

Granted, there are lots of things I would change about our house, but why I felt the need to immediately put it down is beyond me. As it happened, Katie liked the room and as long as I was happy to feature it, we were good to go. In the lead up to a photographer coming round, I had daily episodes of just staring around the room, trying to think of quick fixes for it. With no time to decorate (something I was adamant it needed), I left the room as it was and hoped for the best.If was featured in Saturday’s paper and I was so pleased with it. The room looked lovely and the ‘interview’ came across not as bad I was thinking it did – I can waffle on another level! More importantly, it made me appreciate what a nice home we have. Yes there are scuffs and marks on the walls, the door frames have been battered with toys and there is a questionable stain on the rug that just won’t come out, but when we sit down in there as a family, it’s exactly what it says on the tin; a living room.We play games, watch tv, read bedtime stories, have pizza parties, dance parties, sing-as-loud-as-you-can parties. It’s where we watched Daisy take her first steps, where she and I have slept when she’s unwell and where we’ve belly laughed at all her funny little ways. It doesn’t matter how big your house is, how expensive it was or what you have in it; as long as it’s filled with love, it will always be good enough.

Emma  x

So it’s a little over a month on from our wedding and it already feels more like a year ago. When people say it goes by in a flash, they weren’t lying! It really was perfect in every way and we managed to achieve exactly the kind of wedding we wanted. You can read about our wedding plans here.

We got married at 3pm in a local castle, and then on to our reception venue. It was really relaxed with a brilliant party atmosphere and plenty of love and laughter. I think that’s the beauty of modern weddings; you don’t have to stick to ‘rules’ anymore. I stayed at home with Jon and Daisy the night before the wedding, we didn’t have a wedding breakfast; just canapes and a buffet and nobody was made to make a speech if they didn’t want to.

One of my favourite things about the day was how personal it was. The wedding venue is somewhere we visit on a regular basis with Daisy, and both Jon and I went to school in the castle before they moved it. Our florist was a family friend and gifted us our flowers (which were amazing!). We both went in our father’s cars and my uncle drove my Dad and I to the castle. My brother’s were even the best men and I think it really shows in the photos how close of a family we are.

When we received the photos and were looking through them with my parents, my father commented how nice it is to see such beautiful photos with everyone we love in them. Aside from being married, that’s the absolute best thing about the day; celebrating love with your loved ones.

Thanks

Emma  x

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Wedding Dress & Veil – Perfection Bridal Cardiff

Suits – Slaters

Bridal Tiara – Debenhams (Jon Richard)

Bridesmaid Dresses – Marks and Spencer

Flower Girl Dress – Trina’s Aberdare

Flower Girl Tiara & Shoes – Monsoon

Flowers – Suzanne’s Florist

Make Up – Leanne Warren Hester

Hair – Iconic

Photography – SpringBoxPhotograhy

Ceremony Venue – Cyfarthfa Castle

Reception Venue – The Guest Keen

Wedding Cake – Costco (with Marks and Spencer chocolates & macaroons)

Cake Topper – eBay

Donuts – Krispy Kreme

Donut Stand – Homemade